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Holiday Deals 2018: Sex Store Sales & Coupon Codes

With site-wide sales and coupon codes, the holidays are a great opportunity to pick up a high quality strap-on for a very good price. Trying to keep track of all the great deals can be overwhelming, so I’ve condensed everything into one giant holiday deals guide. This guide will be updated through the rest of the year, so bookmark this page or follow me on Twitter to stay on top of the latest deals.

If you’re looking for strap-on recommendations, then check out the following guides:

Last Updated: December 14, 2018

December 2018 Sex Store Sales and Coupon Codes

Tantus: 50% off most Tantus products (except Feeldoes, Realdoes, and leather products) with coupon code METISBLACK. Ends 12/17.

Good Vibrations: 20% off a single item. Some exclusions apply. Ends 12/17.

The Stockroom: 20% off site-wide with coupon code CANED20. Some exclusions apply. Ends 12/16.

SheVibe: 10% off site-wide with coupon code HURRY. Some exclusions apply. Ends 12/16.

Babeland: 25% off a single item. Some exclusions apply. Ends 12/17.

Best Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2018 Strap-on Deals

Tantus Panty Play Vibrator

50% off at Tantus with coupon code METISBLACK

The Tantus Panty Play vibrator is specifically designed to be worn under panties or a strap-on harness.

The General

50% off at Tantus with coupon code METISBLACK

For those interested in giant pegging dildos, the General is my top recommendation. The General is the only harness-compatible dildo in the “over 2-inch diameter” size-range that is specifically designed for anal play.

Terra Firma Harness

25% off at Good Vibes

The Terra Firma Harness is one of my Top 3 Favorite Harnesses of all time and gets a ton of action in my bedroom. If you like using dildos that are huge and/or have giant balls, then this is the harness to use. Thanks to the adjustable O-ring and the unique strap system, you can strap any crazy dildo you want on to this harness, and it will stay extremely stable no matter how wild your movements. It’s my #1 recommendation by far to anyone who likes using unusual dildos, unusual sex positions, or very hard thrusting. It’s also one of my top recommendations for a beginner harness. The Terra Firma is my “old reliable” and she has never let me down.

Temptasia Strap-on Harness Briefs

$19.99 at SheVibe

If you’ve ever wanted to try strap-on briefs, SheVibe has a deep discount on the Temptasia line.

Sexy Stocking Stuffers — Under $10 Body-Safe Sex Toys

Here are a few under $10 sexy stocking stuffers that are non-toxic and phthlalate-free. A great way to bump your order up to the Free Shipping minimum or just to have some cheap fun.

$2.73 Silicone Cock Rings via The Stockroom.

$4.99 Erotic Dice Game via Amazon.

$5.65 Glass Dildo via Amazon.

$6.73 Handmade Leather Cock Ring via The Stockroom.

$6.79 “Ring For Sex” Handbell via Amazon.

$6.95 Bondage Tape via The Stockroom.

$7.99 Tantus BDSM Hanky via Tantus.

$8.49 Nipple clamps via Amazon.

$8.73 Pjur Water-based Lubricant via The Stockroom.

$8.73 Bondage Rope (Cotton) via The Stockroom.

$8.99 Nipple Suckers via The Stockroom.

$9.99 Glass Anal Plug via Amazon.

$9.99 Clover Nipple Clamps (multiple colors available) via Tantus.

$9.99 Glass Candy Cane Dildo via Amazon.

Did I miss any deals in my round-up? What is your favorite Black Friday Deal? Let me know in the comments!

30% Off the Terra Firma Harness at The Stockroom – Black Friday 2018

Here’s another Black Friday 2018 deal that warrants its own separate post: The Terra Firma Harness is now 30 percent off during The Stockroom’s 2018 Black Friday & Cyber Monday Sale. This is my favorite harness of all time and gets a ton of action in my bedroom. If you like using dildos that are huge or have unusual shapes, then this is the harness to use. Thanks to the adjustable O-ring and the unique strap system, you can strap any harness-compatible dildo you want on to the Terra Firma harness and it will stay extremely stable no matter how wild your movements. It’s my #1 recommendation by far to anyone who likes using large dildos, unusual dildos, unusual sex positions, or very hard thrusting. It’s also one of my top recommendations for a beginner harness. The Terra Firma is my “old reliable” and she has never let me down.

The Terra Firma rarely goes on sale, so grab this deal before they sell out! Sales end 11/25.

Black Friday 2018: Sex Store Sales & Coupon Codes

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Last Updated: November 23, 2018

Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2018 Sex Store Sales and Coupon Codes

Tantus: 50% off most Tantus products (except Feeldoes, Realdoes, and leather products) with coupon code BFCM. Ends 11/26.

Babeland: 20% off site-wide. Free vibrator and shipping for orders over $69. Ends 11/26.

SheVibe: Coupon Codes — 10% off orders over $75 with coupon code JINGLE10, 15% off orders over $100 with coupon code JINGLE20, 20% orders over $125 with coupon code JINGLE30. Free shipping on orders over $75. Ends 11/26 (midnight EST).

The Stockroom: Black Friday Sale. Up to 60% off. Ends 11/25.

Good Vibrations: 20% off site-wide sale. Ends 11/26.

Best Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2018 Strap-on Deals

Tantus Panty Play Vibrator

50% off at Tantus with coupon code BFCM

The Tantus Panty Play vibrator is specifically designed to be worn under panties or a strap-on harness.

SpareParts Joque Harness

15% off at SheVibe with coupon code JINGLE20

The Joque Harness is one of the best strap-on harnesses ever made–very comfortable, beginner-friendly, and well-designed. A personal favorite of mine and highly recommended!

The General

50% off at Tantus with coupon code BFCM

Terra Firma Harness

30% Off at The Stockroom

Sexy Stocking Stuffers — Under $10 Body-Safe Sex Toys

Here are a few under $10 sexy stocking stuffers that are non-toxic and phthlalate-free. A great way to bump your order up to the Free Shipping minimum or just to have some cheap fun.

$2.73 Silicone Cock Rings via The Stockroom.

$4.99 Erotic Dice Game via Amazon.

$5.65 Glass Dildo via Amazon.

$6.73 Handmade Leather Cock Ring via The Stockroom.

$6.79 “Ring For Sex” Handbell via Amazon.

$6.95 Bondage Tape via The Stockroom.

$7.99 Tantus BDSM Hanky via Tantus.

$8.49 Nipple clamps via Amazon.

$8.73 Pjur Water-based Lubricant via The Stockroom.

$8.73 Bondage Rope (Cotton) via The Stockroom.

$8.99 Nipple Suckers via The Stockroom.

$9.99 Glass Anal Plug via Amazon.

$9.99 Clover Nipple Clamps (multiple colors available) via Tantus.

$9.99 Glass Candy Cane Dildo via Amazon.

Did I miss any deals in my round-up? What is your favorite Black Friday Deal? Let me know in the comments!

Memorial Day Weekend 2018 Sex Store Sales – Save Big on Harnesses and Plugs

If you’ve been thinking about buying a strap-on harness or a new sex toy, then this is an excellent weekend to do so. There are great deals and site-wide sales to take advantage of. Here are some of the best deals.

The Stockroom’s Memorial Day Weekend Sale — 20% Off Site-Wide

Use coupon code MD18 at checkout to get 20% off your order.
Sale runs May 25 – May 28
Sale Exclusions: Sale-priced items, BDSM furniture, and sex machines

Terra Firma Harness

My top recommendation for The Stockroom’s site-wide sale is the Terra Firma Harness. The Terra Firma Harness is my favorite harness of all-time, and is an all-around great choice for beginners and experienced strap-on users alike. The Terra Firma rarely goes on sale, so this week is your best chance to get a good deal on it.

If you’re buying a harness, make sure you have a harness-compatible dildo to go with it. Out of all the dildos on sale at The Stockroom this weekend, the Bandit is my top pick (the Silk Dildo remains my top pegging dildo recommendation and an all-time favorite, but it’s unfortunately not available at The Stockroom right now).

For readers who already own these pegging staples and are looking for something different, check out the Vanity Harness. Not only does it look amazing (there are sexier pictures of this harness on The Stockroom’s website that are too racy to post here), but its unique strap system allows you to strap just about anything into the harness.

Tantus’s Memorial Day Weekend Sale — 30% Off Buttplugs

Use coupon code LIGHTITUP at checkout to get 30% off buttplugs.
Sale runs through May 28

Tantus’s entire buttplug collection is on sale this weekend. If you’re in the market for a buttplug, here are my recommendations:

For those looking for an extreme beginner buttplug, try the Little Flirt (see my Little Flirt review).
For those looking for a toy similar to anal beads but without the safety problems, try the Buck.
For those who are specifically looking for prostate stimulation, try the Prostate Play.
For those who want a giant buttplug, try the Tex.

P.S. Did you know that Tantus now makes a hanky that specifically advertises strap-on sex? Since Pride and kinky summer event season are almost here, it’s a good time to stock up now.

Black Friday 2017: Sex Store Sales & Coupon Codes

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Last Updated: November 23, 2017

Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2017 Sex Store Sales and Coupon Codes

Tantus: 50% off all Tantus products (except Feeldoes, Realdoes, Rumble). 11/24 Only!

Babeland: 20% off your order with coupon code BFSAVE. Free Shipping over $50. Ends 11/27.

SheVibe: Coupon Codes — 10% off orders over $75 with coupon code PAST, 15% off orders over $100 with coupon code PRESENT, 20% orders over $125 with coupon code FUTURE. Free shipping on orders over $75. Ends 11/27.

The Stockroom: 20% off site-wide with coupon code BLACK20. Ends 11/27. Check out the Black & Blue Sale for additional deals. Ends 11/28.

Good Vibrations: 20% off site-wide sale. Ends 11/27.

Best Black Friday and Cyber Monday 2017 Strap-on Deals

SpareParts Joque Harness

15% off at SheVibe with coupon code PRESENT

The Joque Harness is one of the best strap-on harnesses ever made–very comfortable, beginner-friendly, and well-designed. A personal favorite of mine and highly recommended!

Bend Over Beginner Kit

50% Off at Tantus

The Bend Over Beginner Kit includes the following items: Two Silk dildos (my favorite pegging dildo ever), a harness made of velvet and nylon, O-ring, and a bullet vibrator (the harness includes a vibrator pocket for clitoral stimulation). That’s all the equipment you need to get started immediately. For the price SheVibe is charging, you’ll save a ton of money buying the kit over buying these items individually. The Bend Over Beginner Kit is included in my Best Strap-ons Guide, because it’s a darn good deal even at full price.

The General

50% off at Tantus with coupon code BLACKFRIDAY

Terra Firma Harness

20% Off at The Stockroom with coupon code BLACK20

Sexy Stocking Stuffers — Under $10 Body-Safe Sex Toys

Here are a few under $10 sexy stocking stuffers that are non-toxic and phthlalate-free. A great way to bump your order up to the Free Shipping minimum or just to have some cheap fun.

$2.73 Silicone Cock Rings via The Stockroom.

$5.00 Just Cocks Coloring Book For Adults via Amazon.

$5.95 Erotic Dice Game via Amazon.

$6.73 Handmade Leather Cock Ring via The Stockroom.

$6.79 “Ring For Sex” Handbell via Amazon.

$6.95 Bondage Tape via The Stockroom.

$7.93 Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples via The Stockroom.

$8.73 Pjur Water-based Lubricant via The Stockroom.

$8.73 Bondage Rope (Cotton) via The Stockroom.

$8.50 One Touch Vibe via Tantus.

$8.99 Nipple clamps via Amazon.

$9.79 Glass Candy Cane Dildo via Amazon.