Reviews

Tantus Silicone O-ring Set Review

Goodbye rubber O-rings! After giving the new Tantus Silicone O-ring Set a thorough try, I simply can’t go back to rubber. Silicone offers the same performance as rubber with a lot more convenience, and the extra elasticity makes strapping a dildo into my harness much quicker and easier. Even better is that having such a wide variety of O-ring sizes at my disposal means I’ll never have to buy another O-ring set again.

That’s the concise review. If you want the extended commentary or perhaps a little more information to help you decide whether making the upgrade to silicone is worth it, then read on.

Holy Stretchiness, Batman!

Anyone who has experience using an O-ring to strap a dildo on to a harness can probably relate to the following problem. You’ve got your O-ring around the dildo, and now you’re trying to thread the straps through that small space between the dildo and the ring. Threading the first strap or two is easy, but by the time you get to the last strap, the O-ring is already fairly secure and not offering enough slack for you to comfortably thread that last strap in there. The only way to get that last strap around the now taut O-ring is through delicate and slightly painful work from your fingertips. Trying to fumble through this process in a hurry with lubed up fingers becomes an exercise in frustration that I imagine is equivalent to how teenage boys must feel when they first encounter a bra strap.

Thankfully, the new Tantus Silicone O-ring Set has made this problem obsolete. The silicone material has far more elasticity than any other rubber O-ring I’ve encountered, which makes strapping on a dildo a quick and painless affair. A light tug on the O-ring creates a large gap between the O-ring and dildo so that you can comfortably slide the strap through there without needing additional force from your fingertips. The extra elasticity has shaved an appreciable amount of time off my harness preparation routine, and is especially convenient for when I want to switch dildos in the middle of a play session.

Not Your Typical Sex Toy Silicone

The silicone material used in these O-rings is a bit different than the silicone used in other sex toys and Tantus products. In addition to their high elasticity, the O-rings also have a slick surface that feels and acts very similar to a lubed up silicone dildo. Now this came as quite a surprise to me because I’m used to silicone dildos feeling somewhat tacky and resistant when they don’t have lube on them. For this reason, I had initial concerns that a light coat of lube may be required to slip a silicone O-ring all the way down to the base of a silicone toy. This fear, however, turned out to be baseless, as the “permanent lube” texture makes sliding the silicone O-rings over other toys a quick and easy process. No lube is needed to equip your strap-on for action.

Another unexpected but pleasant benefit of the different silicone is that it’s not a lint magnet. These O-rings are the first silicone sex toys I’ve encountered that are actually lint-repellent.

Despite being different from other Tantus silicone products, the O-rings still follow Tantus’ strict safety standards. These O-rings are phthalate-free, non-toxic, odorless, bleachable, and dishwasher safe.

O-ring Performance: Silicone vs. Rubber

The elastic silicone material is clearly superior to rubber when it comes to harness preparation, but can its performance in the bedroom match the same high expectations? How secure is super stretchy silicone really going to keep my dildo when I’m thrusting as hard as I can?

Surprisingly, I did not notice a difference in sexual performance between my old rubber O-rings and the new silicone set. I tested the silicone O-rings on different dildos and harnesses. I created a blind test where I’d use the same dildo and harness but a different O-ring in each trial. Despite thorough experimentation, however, neither my partner nor I noticed a difference. The silicone O-rings provided the exact same amount of dildo stability as the rubber O-rings.

Giant O-rings for Giant Dildos

Tantus already offers a wide selection of giant “two inches or greater in diameter” dildos, so it’s perfectly fitting that they would include not one, not two, but three O-rings in the set that can accommodate their girthier products. Their O-ring diameter sizes of 1.97”, 2.22”, and 2.5” are capable of accommodating nearly all harness-compatible giant dildos on the market.

If you have any interest in strapping on something bigger than two inches in diameter, then this silicone set is absolute MUST. There is quite literally no other strap-on O-ring out there that can accommodate anything over two inches in diameter. It’s either the Tantus Silicone O-ring Set or your own improvisations, and I guarantee that the silicone O-rings perform better.

[To illustrate just how big of a size difference there is between the Tantus silicone O-ring’s are compared to the competition, I took a side-by-side picture of the biggest rubber O-ring I own (2 inches) next to the largest O-ring in the Tantus set (2.5 inches).]

Bottom Line on the Tantus Silicone O-ring Set

If you ever find yourself in the market for a strap-on O-ring, then buy this set. With the wide variety of sizes and high-quality silicone material, you’ll never need to buy O-rings again. It’ll take you from beginner experimentation with smaller dildos all the way to hungry size queen who needs the giant 2.5” O-ring. It’ll make your life easier when trying to strap your dildo on to a harness. It’ll last a lifetime. No other O-ring set out there can offer the same promises.

Available at SheVibe and Tantus.

Terra Firma Harness Review: Why It’s The Best Strap-on Ever

The Terra Firma is my “old reliable.” It’s the harness I wear when I want to give someone a rough fucking. It’s the first out of the toybox when I want to try a new position or dildo. I keep coming back to it no matter what new harnesses come my way. Without a doubt it’s the gold standard by which I measure all other harnesses. If I had to choose one harness to use for the rest of my life, the Terra Firma would be it. Yes, it’s that good.

The Terra Firma has been my top recommendation throughout most of my ten-plus years of strap-on experience, but until now I’ve never taken the time to explain in detail why it’s the best harness for beginners and veterans alike. So let’s take a closer look at my all-time favorite harness–you won’t be disappointed!

Terra Firma vs. Terra Firma Dee

Terra Firma Dee

While shopping for the Terra Firma, you may come across a different harness called the Terra Firma Dee (also sold under the name “Terra Firma D”). Both harnesses are made by the same company, Stormy Leather (a subsidiary of The Stockroom), and are essentially the same in performance, size, and quality. The difference between the two is that the Terra Firma Dee is fastened via D-ring belts instead of the belt holes and buckles used by the original Terra Firma.

Which version should you buy? It’s entirely a matter of whether you prefer D-rings or belt buckles. The D-rings offer the benefit of giving you a true custom fit, but the Terra Firma provides so many belt holes that finding a secure and comfortable fit won’t be a problem for the vast majority of people using it.

No matter which way you fasten it, the harness will perform well and look great. Everything I’ve written in this review applies equally to both harnesses.

Terra Firma Harness Performance

The Terra Firma is the most versatile, best performing harness I own. This is all due to its excellent design where the O-ring is held in place by both the belt and leg straps, giving you an incredible amount of dildo stability. As long as the harness has a secure fit around your body, the O-ring and dildo won’t budge no matter how wildly you move. This is why the Terra Firma is my go-to harness if I want to try a new position or some hard thrusting; I can always trust the dildo to remain stable no matter what I do. No dildo slipping, flopping, or falling out here. If dildo stability is a high priority for you, then the Terra Firma is a must.

Another major benefit to the Terra Firma’s design is that it allows you equip virtually any dildo you want. Since the O-ring is interchangeable, there are no restrictions on dildo sizes or shapes. Want to use a dildo with a large balls or an unusual shape? Want to equip a giant dildo? The Terra Firma can accommodate you. Want to use a double dildo or secure a strapless strap-on? Simply remove the leather backing and wear the straps and O-ring only. You will not find a more versatile harness.

Although the Terra Firma’s functionality is highly-dependent upon a secure fit around the body, you shouldn’t mistake “secure” for “tight”. The Terra Firma has long belt straps and a large number of belt holes to ensure that a wide variety of body shapes and sizes can wear it comfortably without sacrificing performance. You don’t need to wear it at a gut-busting size in order to get the dildo stability you desire; a comfortable fit is more than enough to keep the dildo secure. Once fastened, you can trust the harness to stay in place; no slipping or stopping to readjust here. Yet another reason why the Terra Firma is a great choice for rough fucking.

A Harness with Attitude

Anyone who sees you wearing the Terra Firma will know that you’re a mistress who means business. This harness has attitude. This is not a discreet harness to wear underneath your clothes all day. This is not a harness that looks cheap, flimsy, or purely utilitarian. No, the Terra Firma is as much a piece of sexy lingerie as it as a high-performing harness. Being a great mistress is as much about the attitude as it is technique, and the Terra Firma will help you complete the transformation. You will feel powerful while wearing it.

You’ll also look amazing in it, too. The Terra Firma is simply a gorgeous harness, and pictures don’t do the harness justice. Rest assured, though, that you’re not sacrificing comfort for style, as the Terra Firma is indeed quite a comfortable harness. The leather is soft and its edges are smooth, so no need to worry about painful chafing or digging into the skin. The harness does have a surprising amount of weight, and while it’s certainly not heavy or burdensome, it’s enough to remind you that it’s always there. Again, this is not a “packing harness” or one that is particularly suited for all-day use (the Joque Harness is the reigning champion in that department).

A Sensual Leather Experience

If you have a leather fetish, then the Terra Firma is the harness for you. No other leather harness I’ve used matches the sensual experience that the Terra Firma provides. From its smell to its texture, the harness itself is an aphrodisiac. It starts as soon as you take it out of the package and get a whiff of its leathery smell. The odor isn’t overpowering; it’s just the amount you’d expect from a quality leather product. The leather simply feels high-quality. The texture, thickness, and weight all feels earthy and natural. Upon a close inspection of the ends of the leather straps, you can see that the leather has been dyed all the way through—a sign of quality tanning—and you can even feel the rough suede in the middle.

Overall, the whole harness feels “primal.” I realize that is an odd way to describe a sex toy, but the minimally processed leather feels much more intimate compared to the perfectly buffed, polished, and odorless leather used in other harnesses. I simply feel more sexually powerful in a wild, visceral way while wearing the Terra Firma. I have not experienced this with other harnesses.

Terra Firma Harness Preparation

When you first get the Terra Firma, I strongly recommend trying it on and getting acquainted with it before putting it to use. Figure out what belt holes you’ll need ahead of time, memorize them, and practice putting the harness on. Trust me, this will save you time and embarrassment if you’re ever in a situation where you need it quickly for some impromptu strap-on sex.

The one downside to the Terra Firma is that it’s not the world’s most convenient harness to wear, and this is largely due to its belt holes. They are tiny, there are many of them, and the rough suede interior creates some resistance when fastening the buckle. Now these aren’t really issues for me anymore after years of use and breaking in the leather. I know exactly what holes I need and any resistance has long since been worn away–I can strap the Terra Firma on in a rush if I need to. Like a new pair of shoes, however, a brand new harness requires some breaking in before it reaches its maximum comfort and convenience level.

One more thing to expect from the Terra Firma: the straps are quite long and may require some trimming. The harness is designed with long straps and many belt holes to allow a wide variety of sizes and body shapes to wear it comfortably. The problem is that the straps can hang down quite far from the buckle, especially if you have a petite body. Some people like the way the long straps look and others find it too distracting. If you’re in the latter category, simply cut the excess strap down to your desired length. Trimming is not difficult, and the already rough cut of the belt makes me believe that it was always intended to be trimmed down after fitting.

Final Thoughts on the Terra Firma Harness

The Terra Firma has it all—it’s trustworthy, versatile, gorgeous, and it performs well. This is why it’s my all-time favorite harness and the one I find myself recommending the most often to beginners and veterans alike. No matter what your experience level or your strap-on needs, the Terra Firma will serve you well.

Available at The Stockroom.

Review: Amazon Harness (Tantus Connoisseur Line)

The Tantus Connoisseur Harness line has generated a massive amount of buzz recently culminating in an AVN “O” Award win for “Most Outstanding Product Accessory Line of the Year.” The Tantus press releases and marketing department continue to promote the Connoisseur line’s style, comfort, and performance, and boast that they’re “unlike anything on the market.” As both a strap-on enthusiast and a fan of Tantus, I’ve been eager to try one out for myself to see if the harness matched the hype, and now I finally have my chance.

Out of the entire Connoisseur line, the Amazon Harness was the one I wanted to try the most. Finally, a Velcro harness that doesn’t look like rock climbing gear! Finally, a sexy leather harness that can also fit plus-size users! Tantus wasn’t kidding when they claimed that the Connoisseur Harnesses were “designed by people who actually use them.” Could this be too good to be true? With expectations this high and a “strap-on expert” title to live up to, I put the Amazon Harness through the works. After many vigorous testing sessions, I am ready to offer my in-depth analysis of the strap-on market’s latest innovation. Those not prepared for a 2,000 word novella are free to scroll down to the recommendation guide at the end of my review.

The Amazon’s Velcro Belt: Puts the “Fast” in Fasten

The Amazon’s most notable feature is the wide Velcro belt it uses to attach itself to the body. Put aside any doubts and assumptions you have about Velcro when considering a Connnoisseur harness because the usual stereotypes do not apply here. The Amazon’s Velcro is high quality and very strong. Once I adjusted the Velcro belt to a comfortable fit around my waist, the harness stayed in place no matter what position I used or how vigorous I thrust. No slipping, sliding, or sudden need for readjustment. The Velcro did not unexpectedly separate or otherwise fail.

The Velcro belt also makes this harness highly adjustable, allowing you to wear it as loose or as tight as you please. I was able to adjust it to a very tight fit that would rival even the most gut-squeezing corset, though the resulting overstuffed sausage effect it had led me to loosen the belt to a more comfortable and attractive, glove-like fit. Since Velcro is much more forgiving and adjustable than buckles and belt notches, I especially recommend the Amazon to plus-size users and anyone with an unusual body shape.

Perhaps the greatest benefit of the Velcro belt is that it makes putting on the Amazon incredibly quick and easy. It takes me about 30 seconds to strap the harness on and adjust it to a comfortable fit, and I could probably reduce that time with more practice. Now as much as I love my sexy two-strap harnesses with shiny buckles, they require a bit more preparation to strap on and aren’t conducive to spur-of-the-moment play. Unexpectedly stopping hot and heavy foreplay for a minute or two to go fumble with small belt buckles can be a real mood-killer. The Amazon’s Velcro belt, however, lets you get ready very quickly with minimal interruption. I must admit that keeping such a convenient harness near the bed led to some unplanned strap-on action on more than one occasion. I’ll probably keep the Amazon in our regular toy rotation just for this reason alone.

A Thong For Your Fake Dong

Wearing the Amazon feels like wearing an oversized leather thong. If you do not like wearing thong underwear, then this is not the harness for you. When the belt is adjusted comfortably around the waist, the bottom strap fits tightly against the crotch and digs deep into the buttcrack. I’m admittedly indifferent to thong underwear, but I did not find the Amazon to be uncomfortable, nor I did experience chafing, itching, or painful digging into the skin. The leather strap is wide enough to cover the labia, so that it doesn’t dig into the sensitive bits. The strap does, however, block access to the clitoris and vaginal opening, so if you require access to these areas during strap-on sex, then use a different harness.

A strap-on harness should make you feel sexy, and the Amazon certainly does not disappoint in this regard. A pleasant result of the thong design is that it made my ass look amazing. The wide belt and its curves seemed expertly-designed to frame my hips and buttcheeks in the most flattering and seductive manner possible.

Although I looked and felt great while wearing the Amazon, I am disappointed that it did not deliver the sensual experience that I expect from leather harnesses. The Amazon’s label says, “100% premium leather,” and while it does feel like 100% leather, it is not the same level of quality that other competing leather harnesses in this price range offer. One gripe I have is that the characteristic leather smell that exudes off of a fine leather product is only very faint on the Amazon; a problem for someone like me who finds that leather smell to be an aphrodisiac. Another gripe of mine is that the leather’s thickness is inconsistent. The leather is soft in the belt, but stiff in the thong and around the O-ring to the point where it feels like there is a very thin cushion or lining sandwiched between two layers of leather. The inconsistency is reminiscent of cheap faux leather products. If you’re picky about leather or are looking for a sensuous leather experience, then I advise skipping the Amazon and looking elsewhere.

One final note about the Amazon’s appearance: The purple trim on the harness is actually a wine-colored purple, and is not as bright as the stock photos portray.

The “Uh-Oh” Ring

When deciding whether or not to purchase the Amazon Harness, you must consider how exactly you intend to use your harness and what dildos you plan to use. The reason why it’s important to plan ahead is because the Amazon’s permanent O-ring limits you to using dildos of certain shapes and sizes. The permanent O-ring is 1.5 inches in diameter and cannot stretch or expand at all.

Furthermore, the O-ring does not work well with dildos that have bulbous heads or unusual shapes. For example, I had an extremely difficult time fitting the bulbous head of my realistic Adam O2 dildo through the O-ring despite it having a 1.5 inch diameter. And by “extremely difficult”, I mean it took a serious amount of force to push the harness past the head and down the shaft until it reached the dildo base. Not only was this a frustrating and relatively time-consuming task, but I was scared the entire time that the amount of force I was applying would somehow damage the harness. My Tantus Tsunami, a 1.5 inch diameter dildo with ridges, also took considerable force to remove from the harness. For further comparison, my 1.5 inch diameter Silk Large dildo, which has no large head or unusual shape, slid through the O-ring with no problems at all.

: The Adam O2 does not easily fit through the O-ring despite the dildo’s 1.5″ diameter.

: The O-ring is advertised as fitting 1.5″ inch dildos, but a significant amount of force is needed to push the harness down the shaft.

: The Silk Large, another 1.5″ diameter dildo, has no problems slipping through the O-ring.

This inconsistency worries me. Strapping on a dildo that meets the O-ring size specifications should not be this difficult. I should not have to worry that my 1.5 inch diameter realistic dildo—hardly an unusual size or shape—will accidentally damage the harness. I have serious concerns about how well that permanent O-ring and the surrounding leather are going to hold up after a year’s worth of brutally forcing dildos through it.

Bottom line: If you want to use a bulbuous or unusually-shaped dildo with the Amazon Harness, then I strongly recommend choosing a size that is well under the 1.5 inch diameter measurement. Not just to preserve the longevity of the harness, but because there is no guarantee that it will fit. People who want to use giant dildos should look for a different harness entirely, preferably one with an interchangeable O-ring.

“It Truly Did Feel Like I Had a Dick”

Despite the problems outlined above, the O-ring does provide an incredible amount of dildo stability. The harness holds the dildo base tightly against the body, so that when you adjust the Velcro belt straps to a snug, comfortable fit, you’ll have a very solid grip on the dildo. In my vigorous test sessions, the dildo did not budge or wobble at all. I was able to perform various positions and penetrate at various angles without the dildo being displaced. Overall, I was very impressed with the amount of dildo stability the Amazon provided me.

A surprising, but pleasant result of this setup is that it felt like the dildo was part of my body rather than a toy held together with a system of straps. The dildo was more sensitive to my thrusting and movements than other harnesses, so that getting into position didn’t require as much maneuvering and thrusts didn’t require as much force. It truly did feel like I had a dick, and it made having sex feel more intimate and natural than I expected. I enjoyed it.

If this is the effect that Tantus set out to achieve with the Amazon, then I can forgive the permanent O-ring issues. Although it’s disappointing to be limited to certain dildo shapes and sizes, the intimacy, the dildo stability, and the feeling that my dildo was a natural extension of me was impressive, powerful, and worth the money.

Amazon Harness Recommendations

Although I was harsh at times in this review, I enjoyed the Amazon overall. I looked and felt great while wearing it. Being able to the slip the harness on-and-off quickly was a great benefit that led to more impromptu strap-on sex in my life. Despite the permanent O-ring limitations, the harness otherwise performed exceptionally well. The Amazon will continue to see regular rotation in my toy box.

Does it get my official recommendation? It does…in certain circumstances. Here is who I would recommend it for:

RECOMMENDED FOR:

Beginners. This is a very easy, intuitive, and forgiving harness with which to hone your strap-on skills.
People who want a quick and convenient harness for spur-of-the-moment action.
People with unusual body shapes, plus-size users, and anyone who has trouble using belt buckle harnesses. The highly adjustable Velcro belt ensures that the Amazon will fit your body like a glove.
People who want their strap-on harness to make them feel like they have an actual penis.
People who value dildo stability, control, and sensitivity.

WHO SHOULD AVOID THE AMAZON:

People who hate wearing thong underwear. The Amazon is all up in your business in that regard.
Size queens.
People who want to use dildos that have bulbous heads or unusual shapes. Realistic dildos may also be problematic depending on their size and how exaggerated their features are. See The “Uh-Oh” Ring section for more details.
People who are picky about leather quality.

Disclaimer: I received an Amazon Harness from Tantus in exchange for an honest review. My words, opinions, and experiences about this product are 100 percent my own.

Review: Tantus Adam O2 Dildo

It sounds contradictory to want a realistic dildo that doesn’t seem too realistic, but that concern exists for my lover and I. While I can appreciate dildos with realistic textures and anatomically-correct shapes, I don’t want to feel like I’m fucking an actual dismembered penis. Realistic dildos that are insanely detailed and covered in bulging veins are, quite frankly, a turn-off for me. I’m prefacing my review of the Tantus Adam O2 Dildo with this perspective so that you can better understand why I appreciate its realistic, but subtle features. This is a dildo with an appropriate balance of looking and feeling real, but not so real that it’s a turn-off.

The Adam Dildo: Could Eve Tell The Difference?

The Adam O2 Dildo in Cocoa color (7″ length x 1½” diameter)

From a visual perspective, the Adam is the friendliest realistic dildo that I’ve ever used. The anatomical features are there—glans, urethra, and veins—but they’re subtle, and, unlike other realistic dildos I’ve encountered in the past, not exaggerated to the point of looking cartoonish. The veins are subtle enough to remain a cosmetic feature only and cannot be felt while inserted. The glans is somewhat bulbous against the shaft, but not enough to cause resistance or an unpleasant “vacuum” effect. Overall, the cosmetic features do an excellent job of remaining purely cosmetic and do not cause resistance or distraction while thrusting.

How real does the Adam feel? It feels more real than your average silicone toy, but you would have no problems picking it out it in a blind test with a real penis. Still, I had a ton of fun just squeezing and rubbing the Adam. Its surface has this delightfully tacky feel that is similar to skin with a similar resistance when you rub it. It makes less realistic silicone dildos, such as my beloved Silk, feel almost cold and clinical in comparison. With regard to firmness, the Adam’s shaft is somewhat firmer and less flexible than the Silk and other silicone dildos I’ve used in the past. The head is a bit softer and squishier than the shaft, but not enough to make insertion difficult. The firmness combined with its skin-like surface gives the Adam a somewhat “warmer” and more personal feel overall when compared to non-anatomically correct dildos, but not one that you would mistake for an actual cock. As I explained in the intro, the realistic features are subtle.

Another notable feature of the Adam is that it weighs in at 9.75 ounces, making it one of the heavier silicone dildos I’ve ever used. As a personal preference, I like heavier sex toys because the extra weight makes me feel even more full. As you’ll read in the next few sections, the Adam is no exception here.

An Intense Pegging and Anal Experience

The Adam O2 is only 1½” diameter, but looks and feels girthier than the numbers advertise.

The Adam O2 not a beginner anal dildo. With its 1.5 inch diameter, you will need to warm your ass up first either with fingers, a butt plug, or a smaller dildo before inserting the Adam. If you are not experienced and comfortable with smaller toys, then the Adam is going to be too girthy for your needs. You need to be comfortable with anal sex to insert and enjoy this dildo.

Although the product specs are identical to the Silk Large, I swear the Adam feels girthier than the Silk. Perhaps it’s the Adam’s heavier weight or the more bulbous head, but the toy provides more fullness and feels bigger than advertised. I know the numbers don’t lie, but I’m being upfront about how I feel because it’s a more difficult toy to handle than similarly sized dildos than I’ve used in the past.

Taking the above into consideration, my partner and I, both experienced anal play veterans, quite enjoyed the Adam. Its girth and weight provided more fullness than most dildos we’ve used, and overall, it was an intense anal experience. The head did not cause any unpleasant resistance or “vacuum” effect while thrusting despite being somewhat bulbous in shape. The Adam’s wider and softer head made thrusting against the prostate feel very pleasurable without any pain or discomfort. Indeed, combined with the girthier size and weight, my partner was able to achieve a very intense and powerful orgasm.

Friendly to My Sensitive G-spot

I have an extremely sensitive G-spot, so the Adam’s softer head was very much welcome here. Many G-spot dildos and vibrators have caused me pain in the past either from bad design or material that is too tough, but the Adam’s softer head was more forgiving than what I’m used to. It felt quite pleasurable against my G-spot even during hard, vigorous thrusting, and I experienced no pain or discomfort. The toy’s overall girth and weight provided a satisfying amount of fullness without feeling like I was fucking a giant. Overall, the Adam gets my recommendation for vaginal use, especially if you are like me and have a sensitive G-spot.

Final Thoughts on the Tantus Adam O2 Dildo

The Adam O2’s size, weight, and subtle features were a big hit with my partner and I, providing a satisfying size upgrade from beginner dildos without feeling monstrously huge. Keep in mind, though, that we’re both experienced in anal play and while we enjoyed our experiences with the Adam, we caution beginners to start with smaller toys.

Even though we’re not big fans of realistic dildos, the Adam’s subtle features won us over. The soft head had practical benefits, and the skin-like texture of the toy made using it feel a bit more intimate in comparison to the bright neon, non-anatomically correct toys that we’re used to. It provided a refreshing contrast to our less-realistic dildos without making either of us feel turned off or intimidated. For those of you who want realistic dildos without the super-realism or exaggeration, I highly recommend the Adam.

Disclaimer: I received an Adam dildo from Tantus in exchange for an honest review. My words, opinions, and experiences about this product are 100 percent my own.

Review: Tantus Leisure Vibrating Dildo

Tantus Leisure Vibrating Dildo (7″ length x 1¼ diameter)

Despite being into this lifestyle for quite some time and having a closet full of our favorite toys, my partner and I are always willing to try something new. So when the Tantus Leisure Vibrating Dildo was recommended to me by a fellow expert as being excellent for pegging, my interest was piqued. Once I finally got my hands on one and ran it through its paces, I found it to be an amazing toy for beginners, but possessing qualities that will please even the most seasoned veterans. Want to know the specifics? Read on!

About the Tantus Leisure Vibrator

Leisure dildo with vibrator equipped.

The Leisure’s signature feature is its hollowed out middle designed to hold a bullet vibrator. Conveniently, one comes bundled in, and even includes batteries, so no rooting around in drawers or rushing to the store before you can try out your new toy. The bullet vibrator is simply designed, with a push button at the bottom to turn it on and off. It fits into the hollowed out middle of the dildo, which has numerous silicone nubs designed to hold it in place. These do their job, if a little too well, as the vibrator is very difficult to remove once in. The standard advice here is to lube up both the vibrator and hollow middle before insertion. This advice, however, did not work for me. After some brainstorming, I went to my toolbox and grabbed a pair of needle-nose pliers. That got the job done, but bear in mind that you won’t be able to remove the bullet vibrator after use without a bit of elbow grease.

You may be wondering: “If I can’t easily remove the vibrator, how do I safely wash the Leisure without damaging it?” Well, I was able to run it under a faucet several times without damaging the vibrator, even when water got into the hollow insert that holds it. Make absolutely sure that you remove the vibrator first before placing it in a dishwasher or pot of boiling water, though, as it probably won’t survive the heat.

Pegging and Anal Experience: The Easiest Dildo I’ve Ever Inserted Anally

The Leisure’s smaller girth and pointed head make it very to insert anally.

The Leisure‘s pointed head and smaller diameter make this the easiest dildo that I’ve ever inserted anally. All it took was a generous amount of lube on the shaft, and it slid right in to both myself and my partner with only minimal warm-up. Its non-bulbous head and smooth-as-silk texture allowed me to work up to hard and vigorous thrusting very quickly with no resistance or uncomfortable “vacuum” effect. Despite being very flexible and hollow in the middle, the Leisure held up well during the most intense sessions, with no accidental flopping or falling out.

While the Leisure’s girth is a little smaller than what my partner and I are used to, the vibrations more than made up for it. The bundled bullet vibrator is strong enough to provide a stimulating sensation that you can feel right to your core. I found the vibrations to be a pleasant tease that left me wanting more, and my partner really enjoyed the vibration against his prostate as an accompaniment to the hard thrusting. The strength of the vibrator was “just right” according to him, and didn’t feel too numbing or distracting. He does caution that using it solo might not be enough for him, but that it does produce a powerful orgasm when combined with some hard thrusting from a partner.

Overall, we were both impressed at how well the Leisure performed while strapped into a harness. My initial concern was that the hard thrusting would accidentally turn the vibrator’s push top switch off, but we never once had this problem during any of our tests. Turning it on and off through the leather backing of my harness was quite easy as well, requiring only some extended pressure from my thumb applied to the back of the harness. No need to strap the Leisure on and off to activate the vibrator, as I had initially feared.

Vaginal Experience: Good for a Tease

After our excellent experiences with pegging and anal play, I figured I’d see what kind of job it could do vaginally. A few test sessions later, and I must say, the overall experience was lackluster. To put it simply, the Leisure lacked the girth and vibration strength to really get the job done. I did, however, find it to be a fun and convenient toy for warming up. Insertion required no preparation aside from a few drops of lube, and the vibration was pleasant in that teasing sort of way. The Leisure’s silicone material and smaller head were light enough to pleasantly stimulate my sensitive G-spot without pain or discomfort, which is rare among the many other dildos I’ve tried. Ultimately though, I had to switch to a bigger dildo and stronger vibrator to orgasm. While I still think the Leisure makes a good vaginal warm-up toy, it’s better suited for anal stimulation.

Final Thoughts About the Tantus Leisure

My partner and I both agree that the Leisure is a fun pegging dildo that will see regular rotation in our toybox. The vibrating feature provides enough stimulation and novelty that we’re willing to overlook the lesser girth and difficult-to-remove vibrator. We especially recommend this to anal play beginners, as the smaller size and pointed head make this a very friendly dildo to use. Anal play veterans will appreciate the perfect-strength vibrations as something different to add to their routine.

Disclaimer: I received a Leisure Vibrating Dildo from Tantus in exchange for an honest review. My words, opinions, and experiences about this product are 100 percent my own.